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You’re Doing So Much — But Still Feel Like You’re Falling Apart Inside

You show up. You get things done. From the outside, it looks like you're holding it together.
But under the surface, you're overwhelmed, exhausted, and wondering why it still feels so hard.
Therapy can be the space where you stop pretending and finally start feeling supported.

Let's walk the path back to you-one step at a time.
Reach out today, and lets begin

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You’re Doing Everything You Can… and It Still Feels Like Too Much

The alarm goes off at 6:30, but you’re already awake — not because you’re rested, but because your mind has been buzzing since before dawn. There’s a tightness in your chest that settles in before your feet even touch the floor. Your first thought isn’t “Time to start the day” — it’s, “I can’t do this.”

It is so hard to get out of bed/

You lie there a little longer, scrolling through your phone, hoping for distraction but finding only more reasons to feel overwhelmed: messages you don’t have the energy to answer, headlines you don’t want to read, perfect pictures of people who seem to have their lives together. What’s wrong with me?

Eventually, guilt wins over exhaustion. The kids need you. Work expects you. You move through your routine mechanically — brushing your teeth, avoiding your own reflection because you can’t face your eyes today.

You grab the closest clothes — leggings and a hoodie — because thinking about your appearance feels like one task too many. You make breakfast, pack lunches, heat up yesterday’s coffee. The kids ask questions, forget their socks, and you snap — then immediately feel ashamed. They don’t deserve this version of you.

Your heart pounds for no reason. You lose track of simple things — your keys, the day, whether you fed the dog. Anxious thoughts circle endlessly: Did I mess up that meeting? Can people tell I’m not okay?

You leave the house with smudged makeup and no appetite. You tell yourself, “Just get through the next hour.” You smile when needed, but it’s not real. You’re not thriving. You’re surviving. And the hardest part? Pretending you’re fine when you’re anything but.


Yet somewhere beneath the exhaustion, you catch glimpses of who you once were. The mornings that didn’t feel so heavy. The energy, the laughter, the ease of simply being. The part of you that believed in possibility, craved adventure, and found comfort both in solitude and connection — she’s still there, buried beneath layers of pain and exhaustion.

Healing isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about gently, patiently returning to yourself. The version of you that feels joy, trusts your strength, and sees life as something to explore — she’s waiting. And when the fog begins to lift, she’s ready to rise.


When we talk, you won’t have to pretend you’re okay. This is a space where you can finally exhale. We’ll slow things down, gently untangle the heaviness you carry. You’ll have permission to feel everything — sadness, anger, numbness — without judgement.

.In the calm of the room

Sometimes we cry, sometimes we laugh, sometimes we simply sit quietly and breathe. You’ll start to reconnect with the version of yourself you thought was lost — the one who felt hopeful, joyful, alive.

Together, we’ll explore new ways to overcome obstacles and gently soften the pain you’ve been holding on to for far too long. It’s not about fixing you. It’s about coming home to yourself. You don’t have to go through this alone.


If you’re ready to take the next step on your healing journey, I’m here to support you. Together, we’ll create a space where you feel safe, seen, and heard. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, or life’s heavy moments, there is a way forward.

Let's walk the path back to you-one step at a time.
Reach out today, and lets begin

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Healing Isn’t a Dream — It’s Possible

Imagine…

Waking up with a sense of calm instead of dread.
Feeling steady in your body — not tense, not bracing.
Starting the day without the weight of guilt, fear, or shame.
Moving through your routine with intention, not survival mode.
Looking in the mirror and seeing someone you respect — someone you’re beginning to like.
Getting dressed because you want to, not because you have to.
Saying what you need without overthinking it for hours.
Responding to stress with clarity instead of panic.
Feeling present with your kids, your partner, your friends — even yourself.
Laughing without effort.
Making decisions without second-guessing every move.
Trusting your instincts.
Sleeping deeply and waking without dread.
Crying without shame.
Feeling joy and believing it’s allowed to last.
Holding boundaries without guilt.
Letting people see the real you — and feeling safe doing it.
Not needing to prove your worth, fix everything, or hold it all together.
Feeling lightness, ease, peace — even in the messy moments.
Knowing you’re allowed to rest.
Knowing you’re allowed to take up space.
Knowing you’re allowed to heal.

Let's walk the path back to you-one step at a time.
Reach out today, and lets begin

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You’re not alone — and healing starts with a gentle step back to yourself

Let's walk the path back to you-one step at a time.
Reach out today, and lets begin

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About me:

Joanna Bienko-Czerniski, LCSW Providing individual and couples psychotherapy for anxiety, depression, impostor syndrome, maternal mental health, and the lasting impact of childhood abuse and emotional neglect. Compassionate, trauma-informed care serving the Reno/Tahoe area .

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